By KaiLan
Listening to this song, over and over again....放棄關於你的話題
終于可以不用缺席
甚至還表現的不再關心
從前你是傷的痕跡
現在不過是場回憶
忽遠忽近
我怕的是低潮來襲
這城市哪里夠冰寧
藏住我突然想哭的情緒
寧願失去過去勇氣
好過跟你冷戰退擊
這樣誰輸得起
原來分手是需要練習的
時間久了會變勇敢的
你慢慢出走 我漸漸放手
這不就是我們要的自由
但傷口好了會變輕松的
海闊天空不殘留一點痛
回頭看怕懦弱住前走怕墜落
但我一定能學會
在想你的時候不難過
Ya...i believe that 我一定能學會
在想你的時候不難過
By KaiLan
Unbelievable, i drank (whisky) and i danced!!! i can't imagine (till now), i was soooo........well.......*speechless*
I was even described as a "Good Drinker"!!...OMG, how would this adjective link with me?? Will they believe that i actually don't drink?
Sabahan are natural drinker, it runs in their blood?? (plis laaa....) but i was really surprised when i realized i was still "ok" after a few glasses..some more "bottoms up" for once.....gosh!!! i even beat the others (while 1 of the guys vomited, aiya)! surprisingly i was energetic for the whole night long...
However, i enjoyed, we all did!! I'll remember the moments where we danced like crazy!!! It was just crazy fun! Cheers to my frens & cheers to 291010 nite~
(it's ok...once in a while, let me become a bad gal...i know my "limit" anyway)
By KaiLan
Love to be in a place, without knowing anyone. Mentally tired sometimes. It's good to take a short break and rejuvenate myself! Cheers KL...
By KaiLan
My new fringe cut by mummy =P
*Sharing is caring*
I love outings!
Saw the 'orang utan' behind me? =P
By KaiLan
No matter how the world changes, i'll still remember your kindness.
By KaiLan
天亮了 雨下了 你走了 清楚了 我愛的 遺失了
想要放 放不掉 淚在飄 你看看 你看 看不到
我假裝過去不重要 卻發現自己辦不到
說了再見 才發現再也見不到
能不能就這樣忍著痛淚不掉
說好陪我到老 永恆往哪裡找
再次擁抱一分一秒都好
你的笑 你的好 腦海裡 一直在繞
心碎了一地 撿不回從前的心跳
傷心過去我無力逃跑
說再見 才發現再也見不到
By KaiLan
Got to know some of my pep 16 frens hav been promoted, even within 3 years, due to compliment filling up.
Suddenly i feel like, well, you don't need to be very good in your work. It's not the issue whether you achieved high in your KPI or competency rating.
As long as there's a compliment, and ur performance isn't teruk sangat, then u'll be promoted.
So in other words, i shouldn't stay in OSEC izit...since there'll be no compliment for E14/15 for the next 5 years......
B4 i left the office today, i was telling myself "balik la...kalau tak ade komplimen, kerja sampai kiamat pun tak akan naik" (i'm not sure y i used to think and tok in BM when i'm in the office).
Actually i hate myself for thinking in this way, for being demotivated, for thinking negatively and for being calculative.
I just hope to be happy going and leaving the office. Life has been so difficult, can i not to be complicated?
Anyway, i really feel happy for Patricia. How lucky she is! and it'll be easier when i need to deal wif Kepong nx time since she's the pengurus of PP&P there..
It's ok WKL, this is called "rezeki"...like it onot...you still need to wake up at 5:15am tmr and start ur working day!
By KaiLan
Time to insert a full stop.
I'll prove to you that, i'll be good, very good. That's the promise to myself.
By KaiLan
Time to dive into work, again.
Time to experience the feverish pace, again.
By KaiLan
Shanghai is much prosperous than i thought.
It somehow carries the "Taiwan" feel...
A place full of people...Yea, 20 over million ppl, just in Shanghai alone!
While the population of the whole Mal is... 28 mil i think?
I try to remember all these, for as long as i could.
I especially like this place, called The Bund.
The night view is... romantic!
But too bad, my bro was disturbing there...
It's nice to gather again....
I love you mummy!
By KaiLan
"Mayb u're of Versace type and we're like...pasar malam type....u know, tat kind of thinking....till we tok and listened to u toking 'bout pasar malam...then only we felt like....oh ok....i feel more comfortable...."
The normal perception 'bout me by others. The wrong perception.
I hope i'm of Versace type but i'm not.
By KaiLan
Mummy said i'm 2 years old now!
Everyone is celebrating b'day wif me!
Daddy, mummy, Alex and ah ma fr Shanghai....
Daddy has asked some1 to build a playground for me!
Soooo happy!
Is this the right way daddy?
By KaiLan
Gathering wif ex-secondary skulmates...
Ming Yee & Lee Ping
06.06.2010
It's nice hanging out wif my old buddy...
Karaoke, shopping, spa, chatting, steamboat....
How nice it is if Lee Ping & Dao Ping stay here in KL,
and...Jacklyn Tsae Pyng hasn't got married & had baby! (oupss, touch wood touch wood!)
Now only i realize all my good frens' names end wif 'ping' pronunciation. =)
By KaiLan
Hahaa, now only i realized my colleagues have taken quite a number of my pix... =P
Even when i was holding the tender documents! Hey should instead help me carrying the documents mah....
By KaiLan
It's nice sitting in a car valued at RM700,000 in the market....
It temporarily satisfies my vanity.
You said you would pay half of the price if i buy a new car nx time.
Instead, I should be excited....
But i know, this isn't right and u're not the real happiness i'm looking for.
By KaiLan
TQ to all my frens...colleagues....family members....for all your well wishesss & presentsss....as well as the b'day songs through hp...
I was especially touched by my colleagues fr PP&P and CMC Metro,
I din expect it as you all seldom hav b'day celebration in the office mah,
I know you all sayang me much! ;P
My 30th B'day Wish arrr.....
Erhemm, can go bk home b4 7pm on every working day!!.... haha, okok...be more serious....
Erhem.... i hope to meet my Mr Right soon, then mayb i can stop working! =P
Haha, no lah, i still hope to work laa...
Erhemm, ok...still the kolot wishes...may i'm be blessed with good health and happiness! =)
By KaiLan
Among all the other contact centers, TNB Careline won the champion!
We hailed the great victory.
We laughed and cheered heartily.
It was a great rejoice and jubilation.
I really feel proud of my staff in CMC Metro! =)
By KaiLan
I'm confused. Should or shouldn't i? Although he's not my "dream guy"...I know he'll be a good bf, and even a good hustband. I know i'll be a happy person being pampered by him. I really feel touched for everything he has done to me all these while. The issue now is, even though he treats me nice, very nice, i don't love him.....ok, mayb i shouldn't use the word love here, i don't "like" him enough... I still hang on with him, because i'm afraid, one day i'll feel regret of letting go a nice guy, who treats me so nice and appreciates me of who i am. Huh, i know i'm selfish. At least, do allow me to be selfish, for at least some time. Ppl always say: It's better to find some1 who loves you more than you love him. I always remind myself "What if i really hav found some1, very rich, handsome....but he doesn't love me enough? i'll be the one who suffer at the end"....yea, i understand all the theories, i really do. But i'm really not ready for that because......ok, i admit that i still can't let go of my past relationship. It's really unfair for me to accept him at this moment. To be honest, i have no confidence towards love or relationship, anymore. Till today, i've just poured my real feelings towards 3 men... first, of course my 1st-ex, second, of course my 2nd-ex, and the third, huh..this is ridiculous, someone whom i know we won't hav ending right fr the beginning... I've met with so many guys after my break up. Well, someone VERY rich, yet, married...someone handsome and looks smart, yet, playboy and...pls forgive me to use the word "cheap"...macam2...yet, although i'm not smart, or being naive sometimes, i still can differentiate who sincerely treat me nice and who aren't, whom i can just treat as normal frens. I'm not into the game of easy-come, easy-go. I won't start a relationship if i'm not ready, or if i'm still uncertain. But i know i'll be a very good gf in my next relationship. =) I leave everything to God, to the fate.
By KaiLan
Ija's baby boy was born in 27 April 2010! Visited her and the baby boy today. I was so touched! Suddenly i have the urge to get married and have a baby asap. Ya, i always have such feeling whenever i see babies =P They all commended...due to the seat setting, Ija looked at me most of the time during office hr, tat's why her baby is as fair as me!! lol
When i was using the printer today, suddenly i thought of you. Huh? What will happen if the printer breaks down suddenly? Ija won't be here to help me.... =(
I still remember.............
the situation when your water bag pecah that day when you js finished your prayer in the room...erhem, well, u still acted steady nonetheless, haha...
I still remember............
when we both waited for Prem in the carpark, you saw Prem was walking towards his car. U said "Nak naik mercedes tu ke?" i replied " Tak laa! dia ambil kunci kereta lain jer....hey, at this moment, u masih ade mood nak pilih naik kereta ape ke????".... We both laughed heartily, yea, u mentioned it b4, u didn't 1 2 naik kereta tu.....too low for you......
I still remember..........
we tried to cheer u up in the car, js to release your tension........u looked pale when you experienced the 1st contraction inside the car.......
I still remember..........
when your hustband reached the hospital, we're 'bout to leave, b4 leaving, we hugged each other and i said "Be strong ya!......." i tried to give you a supportive smile, as much as i could. =)
Gonna miss you.........and your laughter, very much!
(aiyaa, why couldn't i separate in paragraphs??....arggghhhh)
By KaiLan
A new member to our family on 16th Apr 2010(and the first one in our family having Eng name)
Su Yao has a brother now!
I think she's happier having a new toy! Well, her mum told her that this toy was given by Alex! and she believed that...
.
By KaiLan
Dunno y, and dunno who occupied my office carpark today. After having b'fast wif Liza, still, the car hadn't moved yet...There's even no place/corner for me to park illegally...While thinking hard on what to do, suddenly Ija's car passed by, Liza and her had the same advise to me "Block jer kereta dia...biar dia tau and learn the lesson, jgn sebarangan park kat tempat orang..." Ija left. Agn, Liza guided me "u park tepi sikit...block kereta dia..." I looked at her.."ha? boleh ke macam ni..." "Kenapa tak boleh?....siape panggil dia park macam ni?"...i spoke softly "takut laa..." suddenly, i heard her saying spontaneously "jgn takut! I ade!! "Listening to her saying this with a serious expression, i was vy touched in fact.
I feel vy grateful that i'm blessed with some good frens in the office....
Liza: Sometimes, i do think that i'm vy "ngam" wif Taurus ppl...I do admit that sometimes, i tend to neglect her, especially recently when i've moved in to the room and mixed much wif ZZ and Ija. Anyway, whenever i need a companion, she's alwiz there for me and listen to me. Some ppl may misunderstand her personality, but to me, i know her well and i really appreciate the friendship wif her.
Ija: Some ppl say it's not easy to stay and share in a room, and be in the same unit but thanks God, i alwiz meet the right ones, hehe, e.g. Adeeb and Ija...Since i've moved in and shared the room wif her, i hav the chance to know her better and our relationship and friendship develops. We always share things together, yea everything, fr jokes, frustration, feeling etc. Thanks for being there for me whenever i'm stressed at work. I still remember one day, early in the morning when we js reached the office, v both like...huh, it's another working day...gosh...and u told me "ya...semasa kat rumah, i was thinking, frus yier nak kerja..tapi i fikir..tak ape, kai lan ade...." Haha, actually i was thinking the same! =)
ZZ: Well this little woman...erhem, last time i alwiz thought tat we would be closer if we're not of boss-subordinate relationship and my assumption was right!! Although i'm still working under you, u're not my IM...and we've become so close as good frens. Despite the serious (garang) expression that you portray and the tone u speak when u're having the meeting wif other dept (especially ICT), or when u're frus wif some1 else, you're in fact oh-so crazy, funny and....i may say "cute"...the way you described ppl, or issues, will alwiz make me feel laughing non-stop. Although some ppl may not accept your "way", you and Ija, hav really lighted up my dayssss~ Js that, sometimes, or i should say most of the time, u both are so bising and laughed really loud lo. "hey, boleh tak lady-like sikit...." haa, this will be my advise whenever i feel tak tahan. Undoubtedly, ZZ has guided me a lot in my work and by working wif her, i could understand what "teamwork" is. I alwiz remember her honest comments and i admit that..."Kai Lan, u're a very good implementer, but you should improve on your managerial skill if u wanna go higher...".
Who else...ya, the cute and innocent Ira, Zahirah (who alwiz fights wif me)...Nizam-Jason (a vy "manja" fren), Rahim-Roy (a "father-ly" fren), Tn Syed-Eddie (a playboy fren), Prem (a fren who helps me a lot, ya, hav the chance to alwiz sit in his CLS 350 or lexus for b'fast), Keenan (who made me understand the theory: don't judge a book by its cover...yea, i din like him initially until that interview...he's not as "lorat" as i thought...haha)....
At least, you all made me think that, i'm not alone all the way.
By KaiLan
Suddenly i feel like giving up on everything.
Feel like running away.
But,
I dunno where to go.
The only place where i can think of now, is my home sweet home.
By KaiLan
I think i've changed, till a stage that i even doubt myself .
Nowadays, i'll think bad and negatively 'bout others, i've learnt to be fake, i'll criticize others, i distrust even on the sincerity of others treating me nice and yes, i've started to haggle over every ounce and be calculative over gains and losses.
I dunno wat makes me change. The working environemnt? No, i shouldn't blame on others 'coz i have the right and choice to think and act in a good and right way. Sometimes i'll console myself that this is the way (or strategy) to survive in a competitive world. I know this is wrong. This is just an excuse to make me feel better.
I think and i hope it's not too late yet, to realize all these. I should regain my consciousness and be sober-minded.
By KaiLan
I used to think that i was right, as long as i was happy and i didn't hurt anyone....
By KaiLan
Mentally tired.
Going back at 7++p.m. everyday.
CMC, OSEC, GSL, MSL, DSL, Cust Charter, SIT, K-Portal......
I dunno till when i can sustain.
Sometimes i really wonder, y can others be so free at work, yet management doesn't assign any work for them? padahal kuli like me, work is sooooo much and saturated dy, yet, still being assigned macam2 work??
=(
By KaiLan
I was happy that i were wif my good buddies during the first moment of 2010
Packed with various outings & gathering since christmas. Life is happening & tiring. Sleeping at 3am and waking up at 11am in average (even slept at 5am for 3 nights!). Went clubbing for 2010 count down~ Haven't clubbed for quite some time.
Been rouse up with force and spirit during clubbing till dao ping commented on the next day "Hey, you're really high last nite!" "Did i??"...haha, maybe she's right. I remember i was shouting while standing on the bench, looking at the fireworks...i was thinking and telling myself "2010 will be a new start for me, a happy one!"
It's time to rest more and get ready for the coming working week....Yea, getting older, i need more rest..... ><