Affair-ing
Having drinks wif my good frens Tn Sxxx & En Nxxxx this evening. Mayb we're out of office and it's over office hr, we could talk freely and the main topic was 'bout having affairs.
Marriage and having affairs are really 2 different things. Listening to them, i hav much thought 'bout married men having affairs. It's 'bout willingness between both parties, it's 'bout knowing the extent, or even knowing when to let go, w/o being deeply attached to. It should be a game (i'm not sure whether it is) w/o hurting anyone.
I've also learnt that, when knowing or suspecting hustband of having affairs outside, wat an astute wife should do is just to keep quiet. Maybe she should believe that "A prodigal who returns is more precious that gold". While for the men out there, please, be as smart as you can, w/o letting your wife know 'bout it, forever. Never never give yourself away and let the cat out of the bag, if you're mentally prepared to enjoy this affair.